Time is all that matters. The value you assign to a second decides your strength tomorrow. Your strength tomorrow decides what home you will make for yourself.The strength of your home decides the happiness of the ones you love and cherish.
No one searches for anything, since it has always been at the tip of everyone’s tongue from the moment they start thinking; where am I? Is this my home? What will my home look like when I grow up?.. Only your heart decides what you are, and your values decide what radiance you’ll express in whatever you choose to do, be or become in the Future.
The best choice is to either tell your children or those smart enough to think of it themselves; what type of Home are you looking for? Will you follow the trodden path into family, love, and friendship? Or will you break the pattern and create your version of home? Not everyone grew up in a home, with parents that loved them or caretakers that were even close to being fit for their duty.
Their idea of a home might be different, but they have their dreams of stability, like any other. Finding somewhere to relax, since they already miss what they never had there’s no need for loneliness to learn what was missing, just the path toward becoming self-sufficient.
We as adults owe it to the children of any era to grant them a playground of intellectual freedom, safe streets to play in, and excitement in the art of learning.
Not to force-feed them regurgitated nonsense, but rather teach them to copy until they can think their path forward for themselves. Using values either formed from their parents passing down their view on what they believe home is, or them learning from their friends and peers to dream big and never surrender. It’s better to stand tall and end up somewhere in the middle than to have aimed for the middle and ended up letting down In the process because you never gave it a try.
Young children are in a brutal sense tiny blank learning machines that soak up the world around them like a sponge. Give them what intelligent learning machines need; a framework for learning, the opportunity to process what they learn in the form of learning the art of writing from a young age, and the sense of excitement children need to form a happy feeling about learning new things.
The more you force them, the less they learn. Rather make the framework of goals and rewards such that they WANT to evolve on their own, not just because you told them so and that is it.
But another important note is also that children need clear boundaries in life, that inspires them to realize themselves that discipline is important in forging will and life.